I wanted to create this open space where questions are welcome about issues you may be having or thoughts you want to share where you’re looking for another point of view.

My, not so conventional, life, taught me resilience at a very early age. I also found myself questioning life, always open to hear what others had to say, whether I agreed or not. I gave the person the respect of listening because that is what I expected from others, often times it was not reciprocated.

My life has been a lesson in how to deal with people who only saw their point of view. I learned diplomacy. I learned acceptance. I also learned that some people were not good for me to be around, as they were not interested in bringing out the best in me, nor were they interested in giving me the freedom to be the best version of myself. Walking away from bad situations takes strength and courage when you know, to your core, that it’s the only way.

There’s one thing that each of us need to understand, and with that understanding, it will bring peace and comfort into our lives, and that is to be open to another point of view.

It is essential to embrace each person’s individuality and all that comes with them. Ask yourself if this person, whether you’re just getting to know them or if you’ve known them for years, should think like you, react like you and/or say what you would say. Of course the answer is “NO”! The thought is laughable! Trouble will arise if someone in your life thinks that should be the case.

Do you think if someone disputes your opinion about something, that you should change your mind just because they said so? The answer is “NO”! Another laughable thought.

Now, on the other hand, in healthy discussions, one could share another point of view to be considered. If that point of view makes sense, one might adapt it as their own.

After all, we are bombarded every day with new information or new ways of looking at a subject.

The important thing to remember is to stay true to your core values in all situations.

What do YOU need another point of view on?

Looking forward to hearing from you.